Tantra Massage
Naked massage for men
Sensuality, eroticism, sexuallity
Tantric massage
Fantasy Farm is much more than a place to attend a retreat: it's a space given over to nature and wellbeing, where yoga and massage retreats for men are held, and where naturist massage is explored in a caring, technical setting, free of taboo.
Tantric massage: a term worth clarifying
Strictly speaking, 'tantric massage' is a contradiction. Tantra is a spiritual philosophy: personal work towards an understanding of consciousness (shiva) and of its energy (shakti). Neither of these principles is 'human', and neither attaches in any way to the physical body.
This philosophy goes beyond dualist yoga and traditional Hinduism, which has allowed some to claim that free sexuality is tantric, even 'sacred'. But the tantric path is spiritual before anything else. Sexuality can be a vehicle within it — and for anyone who reads the texts closely, what arises there isn't personal pleasure sublimated, but the experience of belonging to the divine.
Training to master the art of male massage
Here you learn and refine the art of massage by building your own protocol. The techniques come from the Indian ayurvedic tradition and from Thai massage: enveloping depth and an awareness of energies from the first; precision in the energy lines, acupressure and assisted stretches from the second. The work is done on the table and on the floor, and the complete protocols include the genitals and the prostate, approached with anatomical rigour.
The workshops open up the therapeutic dimensions of touch: releasing muscular tension, stimulating the flow of energy through the limbs, exploring different kinds of touch and rhythm.
Sensuality, eroticism and sexuality are an integral part of what is taught. You learn to set the frame before a session, to welcome without judgement whatever arises in the receiver's body, to say no and to hold your own limits. These dimensions may or may not form part of your professional practice afterwards, depending on the wishes and informed consent of both masseur and receiver.
The aim is a complete approach, technically sound, shaped to each person.
Yoga, an indispensable asset for the masseur
At Fantasy Farm, yoga isn't an option but a key for any massage practitioner. A masseur offering intimate, sensual or erotic care needs suppleness, control of the breath, a handle on emotion and a clear intention. Yoga is how you come to understand what it takes to offer an experience aligned with your own values and capacities.
The yoga taught here draws on the Iyengar method, precise and intense, while integrating meditative practice and breathing techniques suited to a naturist male setting, to eroticism and to sexuality.
No mysticism — an honest, respectful approach
Some might align this philosophy with Tantra, but at Fantasy Farm it's simply a whole-person approach, without dogma or mysticism. There's no rigid protocol: each practice is individual, so you can express yourself freely, within your own limits, desires and capacities. Consent and respect are at the heart of everything.
A place to reconnect with yourself and with nature
Fantasy Farm cultivates transparency, respect and open exchange. The space is designed to help you reconnect with nature and with yourself, through permaculture gardening, meditation and walking.
Want to train in naturist massage for men?
Mark and Fantasy Farm offer a professional training in naturist massage for men, over 5 days and 6 nights.
It's for men physically able to give massage on the floor and on the table, intensively. Applications are reviewed, which keeps the group consistent and the quality of practice high.